I could really use some prayers

**hews500d** · August 7th, 2010, 13:06

Hi all, I'm going thru probably the most stressful time in my 41 years right now and can use all the prayers I can get. It seems I have a urological issue that's apparently been plaguing me for most of my adult life, but has for the most part been silent until now, and has resulted in my having a damaged bladder that may never recover fully. I am having surgery on Aug 17th to hopefully correct the problem, but it sounds like my life is going to be forever changed as I may have to learn to "self-catheterize" myself several times a day if this doesn't help. It's a relatively simple procedure but needless to say I'm absolutely petrified. These past 2 weeks have been an emotional rollercoaster for me, and although I've never been a greatly religious person (I do believe there is a God and have accepted him as my Savior) I think I've prayed more in the past 2 weeks than I have in many years. I can only hope HE is hearing them and can finally let me hear some good news after the surgery.

I know things could always be worse and am fortunate that I've always been in good health for the most part, but I can use all the support and prayers I can get so I can get all this behind me. One never realizes how fortunate they are till the simplest things they've always taken for granted like going for a bike ride or a run are temporarily taken away from them.

Thank you all.

Darrell

**txnetcop** · August 7th, 2010, 13:22

Prayers promised my friend!!! Hang tough!
Ted

**BOOM** · August 7th, 2010, 13:26

I understand how you feel Darrell,I'ts the not knowing part that sux,Have faith and stay positive,I'll be thinking/praying for you.You're never alone.

**Bone** · August 7th, 2010, 13:42

Good luck, and I hope you make a full recovery.

**brad kaste** · August 7th, 2010, 13:51

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.......

**N2056** · August 7th, 2010, 13:54

You have my prayers & support! :salute:

***TARPSBird*** · August 7th, 2010, 14:21

The human body has a knack for healing itself, although sometimes it needs a bit of help from the docs. Don't worry yourself about that self-catheterization stuff for now. Stay positive and hopefully the surgery will have a good outcome. We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

***OBIO*** · August 7th, 2010, 14:21

hews

I will add my voice to the chorus of petitions being sent to the Almighty One on your behalf. Keep us posted on how things go...and know that we are hear to lend an ear and support to you and all our brothers and sisters in Flight Sim.

Tim

**Milton Shupe** · August 7th, 2010, 14:51

Darrell,

Please try not to worry over things you cannot control. Focus forward, be as positive as you can be, and allow those of us pulling for you have a straight conduit to the power of healing.

**HouseHobbit** · August 7th, 2010, 15:24

Darrell,
As many here I shall hold you in my Prayers..
And when two or more agree, Our Lord Does listen..
May you be Strengthened, and your Blessings be many

AMEN

**Dain Arns** · August 7th, 2010, 15:38

Originally Posted by HouseHobbit

Darrell,
As many here I shall hold you in my Prayers..
And when two or more agree, Our Lord Does listen..
May you be Strengthened, and your Blessings be many

AMEN

I'll agree with HouseHobbit.
In our thoughts and prayers here, Darrell.

**hews500d** · August 7th, 2010, 16:23

Thank you all. I'm definitely trying to stay positive. Depending on whether the surgery is done with a laser or the more traditional method I'll either go home the same day or be staying overnight. I'll keep everyone informed.

Darrell

**mississippi** · August 7th, 2010, 16:33

My Prayer go out to you friend hang in there .

Ken Stallings · August 7th, 2010, 16:53

You asked and you shall receive -- and not from us, but from the Big Guy upstairs!

Ken

**Snuffy** · August 7th, 2010, 16:55

Petitions for favor are ascending. :salute:

***jmig*** · August 7th, 2010, 17:21

We wish you a full recovery. Regardless of what happens, your attitude will make a big difference. Keep the faith and keep your chin up, my friend.

God is never far away. Remember the poem, Footprints in the Sand. He carries us when needed.

***gigabyte*** · August 7th, 2010, 19:39

Originally Posted by jmig

your attitude will make a big difference. Keep the faith and keep your chin up, my friend.

hews500d, best of luck to you on the 17th, I have had my own "health issues" and I know what it feels like to be on that emotional rollercoaster. Jimg's words are right on the money ATTITUDE is as important as the skill of the Surgeon, and having FAITH in the good Doctors, Yourself and your God (regardless of your religion) is what you need to concentrate on. Have Faith, and heal fast!

***Navy Chief*** · August 7th, 2010, 22:57

Darrell,

I will say some prayers for you. I too, suffered some urological problems. I underwent prostate surgery. A procedure called a TURP (Transurethral resection of the prostate). It helped my problem immensely. I pray you go through your surgery, whatever is being done, and all is better for you.

Pete

**Lionheart** · August 7th, 2010, 23:09

Hey Darrell,

This storm too shall surely pass. Stay faithful. Be the warrior of faith.

I would like to say a prayer here.

'Father God. Lord, we pray for Darrell. Please bless him with total healing. May you work a great miracle in Darrell. We pray also Father that you would bless him with the faith and hope he needs to get him through this time. We pray that he will come through this healed and better then he was before. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus our Saviour.

Amen.. '

**crashaz** · August 8th, 2010, 00:29

Thoughts and prayers delivered... all family here.

Concentrate on getting well after surgery. The human body is an incredible machine. Most important is your positive outlook on life.

**hews500d** · August 8th, 2010, 05:00

Originally Posted by Navy Chief

Darrell,

I will say some prayers for you. I too, suffered some urological problems. I underwent prostate surgery. A procedure called a TURP (Transurethral resection of the prostate). It helped my problem immensely. I pray you go through your surgery, whatever is being done, and all is better for you.

Pete

Thank you Pete. That's the same thing I'm going to have. My aunt's husband had it also and said he would do it again in a heartbeat if he had to.

I definitely feel for anyone with problems like this, it's not a lot of fun.

Darrell

**hews500d** · August 8th, 2010, 05:05

Originally Posted by Lionheart

Hey Darrell,

This storm too shall surely pass. Stay faithful. Be the warrior of faith.

I would like to say a prayer here.

'Father God. Lord, we pray for Darrell. Please bless him with total healing. May you work a great miracle in Darrell. We pray also Father that you would bless him with the faith and hope he needs to get him through this time. We pray that he will come through this healed and better then he was before. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus our Saviour.

Amen.. '

Thank you Lionheart.

I had something encouraging happen last night. We had a beautiful clear evening so I went outside to gaze at the stars a few minutes, said a little prayer asking that He show me a sign everything would be ok. Well a few minutes go by and nothing, it got to the point where I was like "God, are you hearing me?" within 5 seconds, I saw this beautiful meteor streaking across the sky, so I think I got my answer

Darrell

**TomSteber** · August 8th, 2010, 07:03

Darrell,
God takes care of us all the time. Even when we don't realize it. Try not to fear this upcoming surgery and life changes it may bring. Some of those changes will be for the better. Remember that part. It's not like your having it done just for something to do. It needs to be done. And you will adjust to the changes it brings and you will get through this. And just maybe this will bring you closer to the Lord. Remember, we don't just want God as our Co-Pilot. We should want him AS our Pilot and us as the co-pilot. My guess is that God will use you and your situation to help someone else down the road. It usually works out like that.
I'll be praying for you.

Tom

**Daveroo** · August 8th, 2010, 07:33

Darrel,,
I to am in a urologial nightmare at this time..i feel your pain...ive passed 4 stones in five years,and currantly have a 1.5cm stone sittin in my left kidney,i guess i can feek it shift and it causes immense pain,and i urinate about 10 times a night....lol..i know my syptoms are not yours so i dont know exactly what ya going though..just wanted to let ya know..im with ya in missery..lol....

my prayers are with you as well,i wish you a safe surgery on the 17th and hope its a simple outpacient thing.

we need a super secret SOH (brotherhood/sisterhood) icon just for the members( oh how my mind wanders...good meds i tell ya...)

Dave
pic is the recient stone i passed camaired to a dine...lol

**hews500d** · August 8th, 2010, 08:01

Originally Posted by Daveroo

Darrel,,
I to am in a urologial nightmare at this time..i feel your pain...ive passed 4 stones in five years,and currantly have a 1.5cm stone sittin in my left kidney,i guess i can feek it shift and it causes immense pain,and i urinate about 10 times a night....lol..i know my syptoms are not yours so i dont know exactly what ya going though..just wanted to let ya know..im with ya in missery..lol....

my prayers are with you as well,i wish you a safe surgery on the 17th and hope its a simple outpacient thing.

we need a super secret SOH (brotherhood/sisterhood) icon just for the members( oh how my mind wanders...good meds i tell ya...)

Dave
pic is the recient stone i passed camaired to a dine...lol

Dave, that stone looks rather painful. I've never had one and won't complain if I never have one! I'll be praying for you as well that you get relief soon!

Darrell