April 8th, 2016, 08:09
I have a PDF of the NATOPS F-4B manual and it seems to have the same exterior lighting as in Dave's description.
Both position and join-up lights are on the same switch, so you should see both when wing lights are on.
The tail light is controlled seperately from the wing lights.
Interesting (to me) is that the anti-collision light can not be independently controlled, it only comes on when the fuselage lights are on bright setting.